Religious trauma

Healing from religious trauma, on your own terms.

Faith can be a source of meaning, and for many LGBTQ+ people it has also been a source of shame, fear or rejection. We offer a judgment-free space to heal, whatever your beliefs are today.

LGBTQ+ affirming

Telehealth across California

Ages 6 to 64

In network with 7 insurance plans

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What you might notice


  • Guilt or shame about your identity, body or sexuality

  • Fear of punishment, hell or doing something “wrong”

  • Anxiety, panic or nightmares tied to religious memories

  • A harsh inner critic or black-and-white thinking

  • Grief over lost community, family or faith

  • Feeling numb, stuck or disconnected from yourself

How we can help


Care comes from an LGBTQ+ provider who understands how faith, family and identity can collide. You never have to defend who you are.

Care may include trauma-informed therapy, DBT and CBT skills for shame and anxiety, grounding and mind-body practices, and medication when it helps. If you want to explore spirituality again, we can make room for that too.

Good to know

Religious trauma often shows up alongside anxiety, depression, PTSD, sexual shame and family conflict. We treat the whole picture, and we respect your relationship with faith, whether you’re keeping it, rebuilding it or letting it go.

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Two smiling men embracing outdoors

LGBTQ+ affirming care

Come as you are.

Earl is an LGBTQ+ clinician and an OutCare Affirming Provider. Whatever brings you here, your identity, relationships, names and pronouns are respected, and you never have to explain or defend who you are. Allies and families are always welcome too.

OutCare Affirming Provider

Our approach

Integrative care, built around you.

01

A full evaluation

Your first visit runs 45 to 90 minutes, so we can understand your story, health and goals.

02

A plan made with you

Therapy, lifestyle and nutrition support, labs when helpful, and medication when appropriate.

03

Support between visits

Reach us by phone, email or the patient portal. We aim to reply within 3 business days.

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Just like the way waves break.

You’re not broken. You’re not alone.

And this isn’t the end of your story, just a new chapter. Our care is rooted in science, shaped by lived experience, and delivered with humanity.

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