Relationships

Support for your relationships.

Relationships can be our greatest source of joy and our biggest source of stress. We’ll help you understand your patterns and build connections that feel safe and mutual.

LGBTQ+ affirming

Telehealth across California

Ages 6 to 64

In network with 7 insurance plans

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What you might notice


  • The same arguments on repeat

  • Trouble setting boundaries or saying no

  • Feeling anxious, clingy or shut down with people you love

  • Family conflict, including around identity or coming out

  • Loneliness or trouble finding community

How we can help


We explore your attachment patterns, communication style and what you need from the people in your life.

Care may include therapy focused on boundaries and communication, support for anxiety or depression, and medication when it helps.

Good to know

All relationship styles are welcome here, including monogamous, open and polyamorous relationships, and chosen family.

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Two smiling men embracing outdoors

LGBTQ+ affirming care

Come as you are.

Earl is an LGBTQ+ clinician and an OutCare Affirming Provider. Whatever brings you here, your identity, relationships, names and pronouns are respected, and you never have to explain or defend who you are. Allies and families are always welcome too.

OutCare Affirming Provider

Our approach

Integrative care, built around you.

01

A full evaluation

Your first visit runs 45 to 90 minutes, so we can understand your story, health and goals.

02

A plan made with you

Therapy, lifestyle and nutrition support, labs when helpful, and medication when appropriate.

03

Support between visits

Reach us by phone, email or the patient portal. We aim to reply within 3 business days.

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Just like the way waves break.

You’re not broken. You’re not alone.

And this isn’t the end of your story, just a new chapter. Our care is rooted in science, shaped by lived experience, and delivered with humanity.

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